By Laong Laan
Life is a series of choices that can either make or break you.
Years ago, I faced a pivotal decision: to work on a cruise ship or stay in the Philippines. Despite the tough call, I chose the cruise ship route for the opportunity to earn more in a shorter period.
It wasn’t easy — I graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Economics from the University of Santo Tomas but ended up working as a Utility Boy in a manning agency.
Swallowing my pride, I stayed focused on my goal.
After months of hard work and patience, my perseverance paid off. I was selected as part of the opening crew for an American cruise line. On May 29, 1999, I boarded a plane for the first time, ticking off a bucket list item.
The journey took me from Manila to Venice, Italy — a city I had only seen in pictures. Walking the streets of Italy, visiting historical sites like the Colosseum and Shakespeare’s House, felt like a dream come true.
However, life on a ship wasn’t all glamorous. I experienced the challenges of working 10-hour days, 7 days a week, for 6-7 months straight.
The long hours, the different nationalities, and the unfamiliar food were a culture shock. My first role as a Galley Steward involved cleaning and washing dishes, but God was faithful, and I was promoted to Assistant Cook.
Though the job was physically demanding, it opened the door to something better.
Through the Career Navigation Program, I transitioned to Youth Staff, becoming the first Asian in the fleet to hold that position. This role allowed me to create secure and entertaining programs for children on board. It was a proud moment, proving that Filipinos can compete globally and excel.
Working on a ship has not only given me the chance to experience places like Disney World but also allowed me to give my parents the life they deserve.
I fulfilled my promise to them by sending them on a European vacation, where they experienced the wonders of Italy, Spain, and Switzerland.
Today, I am happily married with one child, still working on a ship, but now as a waiter. Reflecting on my journey, I have no regrets — only pride in being a seaman and an OFW, a modern-day hero.
I am now in the process of building passive income and making investments so that one day, I can say, “I have enough to sustain my family and be with them for the rest of my life.”